To Maan, With Love :)

Maan, well that's not how people know her, it is a name I have coined for her and eventhough she was apprehensive about it earlier, I guess she is very much ok with it  now :P ...

What can I say about this person. She is a  friend, with whom the bond gets stronger with each passing day, one with whom I share everything, I mean every little detail of my life :) and I feel that there is nothing wrong in sharing even the silliest things because we think so much alike that most of the times she  knows the half the stuff going on in my head even before I conveying it to her. A girl who is true to her  mind  and heart :) and a person I would always want to be in touch with ... Also, I would love to be her ;)... 

Maan, today is  a landmark as you are crossing a quarter cenrtury in the journey and I just want to say "Welcome to the club Aunty ;) :P " ...

To the lady in red who makes my photos look more colorful, Wishing you a very Happy Birthday dear and the best in everything ....














With Love,
Lidya :) ...

NY2NF - A Travelogue

The breathtaking beauty of the Niagara falls  and the company of the fantastic four made this journey an amazing one :) ... The gigantic volume of the milky white liquid, the ever rising mist from the falls, and the multiple rainbows from the mist and the sunlight, bring down heaven to you (Remember  the old godly movies where the heaven is filled with white mist and lord Shiva is meditating !).

Mine, Maan's and Tej's journey began on July 1st at 5.45 pm (PST) from SB to LA. From LA we boarded our flight to NY after a layover time of 3 hours. Well in those 3 hours we managed to watch a movie (finished it in an hour, you see the fast forwarding button helps so much in time saving :P), had our dinner and an awesome dessert of molten chocolate cake at Chilis. As soon as our second flight took off Maan and Tej slept off, I tried watching what was being played on the TV but eventually I too crashed. It was 5.30 AM (EST) and I could see the 'Big Apple' from the flight. There it was NY and I was very much excited to be there:) ...

We landed in JFK, took the Airtrain to the Federal circle station and waited for Kuba and 'S' to pick us up as we had to rent the car from JFK itself. S had reached NY the night before from Dallas at 12.00 AM and as always he had an interesting story to narrate ;) (he had lost his carry on luggage during his transit in Milwaukee :P, I will spare the details Karthik :P).

We rented a car (Hyundai Elantra) from Avis car rentals by 8 AM and drove to Kuba's house. This was my first trip in NY and I was amazed by the similarity of NY with Bangalore in terms of traffic. People do not follow any traffic rules! and the cab drivers are the same as our rickshaw drives ( no road sense at all), after coming to US I have been in Califonia and Washington and in both the states I have seen people following all the traffic rules. Since I recently gave my DL written test and had to read a lot of traffic rules :P, NY's traffic was nostalgic. I and Maan kept on comparing NY to Bangalore and Kuba was scolding the drivers on the road all the way :P (which is even better to remind you of Blore). 

We reached Kuba's house at 8.45 AM, all of us got ready by 11.30 AM and left for our next destination 'The Dosa Cart' for Dosas of course. After a putting a lot of fight  to find a parking spot we began our adventure to spot the dosa cart, even though we found it eventually we did not get any dosas and went in search of 'Sarvana Bhavan', there too we did not get any place, had a waiting time of 20 mins minimum so finally settled for a brunch buffet in 'Madras Mahal', the food was average but all of us were super hungry which is sufficient to eat to your stomach's conetent :P.

Next stop NY downtown, and a stop at 'Goldman Sachs'  (or as BK- Snadeep says ಬಂಗಾರದ ಮನುಷ್ಯ ಗೋಣಿಚೀಲಗಳು' :) ) where Maan got her new first name: Chenni :) from the receptionist, saw the new 'WTC' construction in action, Tej stayed back to sleep in the car as he had seen NY before and we four  headed for the 'Wall Street'  (well, ಗೋಡೆಬೀದಿ), on the way saw the fmaous Bull (Maan and I wanted to call it ಗೋಡೆಬೀದಿ ಬಸವ, but sadly it is not on  ಗೋಡೆಬೀದಿ - wall street), I liked the NYSE building, but could not capture the entire building, then we went for the Hudson river tour where we took the shark speedboat ride. Saw the Manhattan skyline, statue of Liberty from very close, Brooklyn & Manhattan & Williamsburg (BMW) bridge and got ourselves thoroughly wet.  It was almost 6 PM, Tej picked us up from the Hudson river harbour and we went to LaGaurdia Airport (LGA) to pick up S's lugguage which had finally arrived in NY :P. After a change of clothes at LGA (as we were drenched),  we left for our main destination the Niagara Falls (NF), Tej drove this time, I Maan and Kuba  slept off peacefully for two and a half  hours until dinner at BK (Burger king). After dinner, Kuba took over driving, stopped for fueling at Syracuse which turned out to be a very shady place, after searching for half and hour we found a gas station and left the place for good. From Syracuse to Buffalo, we played Anthyakshari and Taabo which turned out to be superfun and reached the hotel in Buffalo at 3.15 AM and all of us crashed on our beds, S took the sleeping bag. Maan was the first one to wake up the next day at 9 and I woke up at 10.30. The boys woke up later and we got ready watching the Wimbledon finals, cheering Jdokovic ( we are all Federer fans you see, except Maan who is a Nadal fan) and yes Jdokovic won :) ... We started at 11.30 for the falls, had our brunch at Chipotle (planned to have at IHOP but it had a waiting time of 20 min minimum). Buffalo was nice with a lot of greenery and huge houses. we reached Niagara falls at 2.15 PM,  had to put lot of fight  to find a parking spot which we finally got at the 'Falls Parking lot' , S was very much amused by the name :P. Man, there were so many Desis, it felt as if I had come to India, evrywhere I could see women in saaris and salwar, people speaking Hindi, Kannada, Telugu, Tamil and many more indian languages. Worst of all, the traffic rules were thrown out of the window and people were crossing roads however they wanted (it was worse than NY). There are even Punjabi Dhabas on carts!

We had to rush for the rides as Kuba's cousin had told that they waited for 3 hours to get into every ride. Our hope was that we had bought the Niagara Discovery Pass and did not have to wait in the queue to buy them and also that we could join Kub's cousin in the queue as they were already waiting :P. It did not make a difference as we reached the place only at 3 PM (Met Kuba's cousin but they were too ahead in the queue for us join in between :P ) so we ended up waiting for 2 and half hours for the 'Cave of the winds' :P ( we have some joke on this name too). We split up to see the horse shoe falls as one or two of us waited in the queue (well Tej ended up waiting the longest :)) while Kuba and Maan tried to check out the queue for the 'Maid of the Mist' ride. We had gaint ice-creams  while in the queue (Butterscotch flavor was the atraction, S said it is very rare to find butterscotch flavor in the US, he even took a pick of the menu :P, Priya we will send you the pic). We were given slippers and yellow ponchos for this ride. The American falls and the Bridal Viel ( 2 of the 3 original falls in Niagara, I say original becuase Tej found the 4th one :P that day! which we named 'Tejaswi's Falls' ;) ) consist of the 'cave of the winds' ride. There is no cave now as the rock which formed the cave earlier has fallen off.  First, Maan, I and Tej went  near the falls  and we were more than happy to get drenched in the lashing waters, while Kuba and S went after us and came back in less than 5 min. I and Maan went again and we thoroughly enjoyed the water :). So one ride was done and it was around 6 PM, we planned to go to the Maid of the Mist the next day as time was scarse, while we planned to finish off the other attractions of the falls on our pass that day.


We went near the Horse shoe falls for some more time, took some interesting pics (of Tej rolling down the small hill for the first time :P), and then we left for the 'American falls and the Bridal viel view' from the top, also saw the Niagara river on the way . One more intersting incident happened here, Tej drank Pepsi! and was ready to break rules, in the sense, walk on the road without the pedestrian walk  sign (Well this is huge you see :) ). After some more pics of the falls we left for the discovery center movie about the legends and the history of the Niagara Falls, here the waiting time for the next show was 40 min, so we started playing 20 questions it was more like any number of questions in one min, which turned out to be ultrafun, we laughed and laughed and I will remeber this for a long time :). The movie was like an anti-climax to our game, it was boring, poorly directed and acted and very poorly connected from story to story. I was trying to sleep, Maan was trying to be awake, Tej slept off, S was like 'why have they shown this guy walking on the pole for so long', Kuba was like 'The so called Maid of the Mist was like a zombie when she was  running away her marriage', so the moral of the story is do not go to watch this movie when you visit Niagara. Our next stop was for the lighing of the falls and the fireworks from the observation deck. The falls lighted up and looked beautiful but the process of changing the colors was very slow and after a point it became boring.  we saw the lighting for some 40 min and left at 9.10 PM to go for dinner and come back again for the fireworks at 9.45, but the fireworks on that day started at 9.15 itself and we had to see them from where we were standing.

So with that we were done for the day, all hungry we went in search of the Punjabi restaurant which Kuba's cousin had suggested, but with no luck after half an hour and still hungry we settled for a Punjabi Dhaba on a cart. Food was bad and we were still hungry, so we entered a mall but none of the shops there accepted cards so we started to get back on road as it was getting late and we had to make it early the next day morning. On the way to the parking lot we found the Punjabi restaurant, had roti, Panner subzi and Kofta and happily left for the hotel in Buffalo. It was a 45 min drive,  I Maan and Kuba slept off with Tej driving and S guiding him. As soon as we reached the hotel, we hit our beds. Maan was the first to get up at 6.00 AM the next day, follwed by the rest of us, we had the complimentary breakfast in the hotel and started at 8.00 AM for the falls, Kuba drove, we reached the falls at 8.45, went to the Maid of the Mist ride had to wait for very little time and we got into the boat at around 9.45 with blue ponchos this time. the boat took us to the centre of the horse shoe falls and it was really amazing. I and Maan were humming the song 'America America' from the kannada movie 'America America'  the whole time both the days, especially the line 'ಕಾವೇರಿ ಕೂಡ ಅಸೂಯೆ ಪಡುವಳು ' meaning 'Even kaveri will be jealous after seeing the Niagara' and it cannot see why Kaveri will not be jealous :). I took few photos putting my Camera's life in danger but it was worth it. After the ride we went to the rainbow point and saw the rainbows bieng formed, we even got pictures of double rainbow. With a picture of all of us and the rainbow over us, our trip to the Niagara ended.

So with that we started our journey back to NY, actually New Jersy to see the July 4th fireworks. Kuba and Tej drove again, we palyed Taboo on the way, the drive from Niagara to Binghampton was nice, it felt like we were in some European setting, with the lush green fileds and huge houses, we even saw a place called Warsaw :P, we ate our lunch in Binghamptom, it was a really shady place and we were happy to get out of there. I slept off at 5.30 and I had  no clue as to what happened till 8 pm till we reached NJ and parked our car at Kuba's friend, Vinayak's place. NJ too is full of Desis, this trip was an unplanned desi rush (even though I am not proud of it, I was happy when our flight from LA to SB had only 2 desis, I and Tej :P) Accompanied by Vinayak we went to Hoboken to watch the fireworks. It had a beautiful view of the Manhattan Skyline from this side of the Hudson river. After the fireworks we waited for dinner from 'Naan King', with that we headed back to NY to Kuba's place. It was 12.15 am when we reached and we all  crashed, S's flight was cancelled so Maan, I and Tej were supposed to leave by 3AM on July 5th to the airport to catch our flights at Newark and LGA. Kuba dropped us at that time of the morning, he also had to drop off the rental car at JFK airport after that. I and Tej reached SB at 2.10 PM  after layovers at Houston for 1.5 hours and LA for 3 hours. Maan reached SB at 11.15 AM after layover at Denver. S got a flight back at 3 PM to Dallas.

It was a suuper trip and all thanks to the fantastic four Chenni :), Kuba,Tej and S for such an awesome trip.

Is it going to be my last cuppa ! ( whims and fancies)

I am not a connoisseur of any cuisine or beverage, but definitely I am a food lover :)  and occasionally I enjoy drinking  coffee.  From past few weeks I have been drinking so much coffee that I have started to hate the taste of it, so I decided over a cup of coffee at 3.45 am in the morning today  that this should be my last cuppa  for at least a few weeks (read 4 here) and may be I will be able to enjoy coffee better after that or may be I will quit drinking this bitter sweet liquid altogether.
I know a lot of friends who drink coffee regularly may be like 3 times a day (or even more, I seem like a lesser evil here :P) and few of them who don't even drink coffee. I don't want to stop drinking coffee but also I don't want to drink it so much that I will start hating it (I guess I have reached the starting point of this phase now) because  I do love coffee once in a while, so my best bet now is to quit coffee for a month and see how it goes...
I wonder if I will be able to follow this even for a day! ( I am very flaky you see :P), I will let you know after tomorrow morning 9 am class ;) ...
People say where there is a will there is a way!! but I donno 'where' my will is and I certainly donno 'which' my way is :P ...

First time in Flight, First time in Mumbai to First time in Love :) (Part 3)

Oh man this travelogue does not seem to end. Even I am tired of writing, editing and rewriting. Ok this is the last and the final chapter, so please bare with me a little more.
Second Day in Mumbai. 6.30 am, I really did get up, hooray !  and got a bicycle to go around the campus :). First stop was for breakfast in Hostel 1. Then walked towards the IITB Hill top point. Its a small trek, gives a nice view of the IIT lake, Hiranandani buildings and the gaint pipes which carry water form the lake to the outside world. We Spent quite a lot of time at the top gazing at the lake and the buildings.
I was very excited as the next stop was Taj Hotel,  got ready, left IITB campus at 12 pm, waited in long queue to get tickets to the VT station and from there took a taxi to Taj.I was feeling a sense of elation, and I still have not been able to figure out why I was so much excited to enter a hotel. We got a table at the Sea Lounge, enjoyed the awesome view of the sea from our table with a milkshake and talked on and on and on. Roamed around Taj, had a tea at Shamiyana and then left Taj. We roamed in and around Taj, shopped a bit and then took a local to Andheri. And during the transit form VT to Andheri had the famous Mumbai Vada-Pav. Almost lost my purse in the VT station and almost fell down form one of the  locals. Took an auto to Juhu from the Andheri station which broke and could move no further in the middle of some road near to Juhu , hence had to walk  for almost half an hour but finally reached Juhu beach just before sunset. Oh man, what a crowd it was, it felt like the entire junta of Mumbai was on Juhu Beach. Sunset from the beach with your feet in the water - always a picture I would die for. There are a lot of eateries around the beach, had a kala Katta and the mouth watreing Pav bhaji. It was already time to head back to IIT campus. It was a nightmare getting back,  took autos and buses and two locals to reach Kanjurmarg. My slipper was a nuisance from day one as it was biting my feet, by now I could walk no more as it was almost eating away my feet. I walked bare foot in all the stations till we reached IIT campus.  We made it to IIT at 10.30. Ran to Gulmohar for dinner (it closes at 11 pm), ordered the last meal (literally, as we were the last customers) with a lassi which I relish even today. Chatted into the night, biked a bit around the campus and it was time for the final stop- 'IIT auditorium' for the Final Match of the FIFA World cup 2010. Match between Spain and Netherlands, none of the teams which I supported for so didn't matter who won. I was tired and the match was really boring (none of the teams had scored till then, it seemed like a defensive match from both sides) so took off after half the match time was over. Walked around the IIT campus and retired to bed at 2am which I still don't get as I could have easliy stayed awake for another 2 hours till 4 am which was the time I had to leave for the airport.  I somehow got up with great difficulty at 4 am and was amazed by the auto driver who without a fuss agreed to drive till the airport at that hour in the morning, you see in Bangalore rickshaw drivers are a real pain. We had a steaming hot Chai and I bade goodbye to the city I fell in love with for the first time in my life. With adios to my friend who made the trip memorable  I boarded my flight back to Bangalore and to Cisco to begin my week which felt very wrong after this wonderful trip :P
The spirit of the people, the locals which run so efficiently, the crowded streets, Marine Drive, The sea-link ride, the IIT campus, all of these exceeded my expectations and I just fell in love with this city. I always wanted to stay in Mumbai for one year to experience what it felt like to live in Mumbai, well this fascination started becuase of my brother who loves Bombay (well it was Bombay then when he lived there :)), he used to praise the spirit of the people so much that I always wanted to live in Mumbai and after these 2 days I have decided that I am for sure going live there for a year  :)

First time in Flight To First time in Mumbai to First time in Love :) (Part 2)

I reached Mumbai at 8 in the morning. It was raining. Had an apple and started Mumbai Darshan with Darshan :P. The first on the list was Bandra-Worli Sea link, so took an auto from the Santa Cruz Airport to Andheri station, form Andheri took a local to Bandra, and from there took a bus to Haji Ali Dragah so that we could ride on the Bandra-Worli Sea Link and man Wow is the word. There is the sea, the multi story buildings and the slums and you are able to see all that from the middle of the sea because of this sea-link. Seeing such structures, my faith in engineering gets restored at least for that moment and I feel this great sense of reverence for my fellow engineers and for me too for being one among the clan :P. I will remember this bus ride for years to come :).
So the next stop was Haji Ali Dargah. It was almost 10 AM. My friend was telling me that, once his friend was locked inside the dargah  from 11 am till 5pm because of the high tides in the sea. I just ignored him thinking he was kidding. I saw a lot of people retuning back but very few were walking towards the dargah. The Dargah is in the middle of the sea with a pathway and yes there was security check before entering the pathway :). The pathway is kind of scary, it has not rails to hold on to and the waves keep  lashing on to the pathway continuously. Lots of people taking family pictures on the pathway and kids and elders alike swimming in that disgustingly dirty water without a worry :). The Dargah is not an architectural beauty but its a must see. Dargah has the tomb of Sayed Peer Haji Ali Shah Bukhari. After paying my respects to the Tomb, I was clicking pics and loafing around, the sea looked peaceful and was about to sit for some time taking in the sea when someone told me that they were locking the Dargah from inside as the tides were raising, actually they had already locked it. I was requesting them desperately and convincing that I was a tourist and I didn't have time till 2 pm to wait inside. Thankfully the Mullah who was near the tomb told the guy to let me and my friend out, I thanked him and ran out of there. The tides were really high and there was nothing to stop them from hitting the pathway. We ran and ran till we reached the mainland. My dress was completely soaked with the dirty water form the sea. I heaved a sigh of relief as I could not imagine sitting inside the Dargah doing nothing till 2 PM. It was at this moment,  I was realized of the good luck which had continued since that morning  :)...
We were hungry, went in to a udupi hotel and had idli as usual. It was the area near to Mahalaxmi temple, my friend was giving me a lot of gyan of the area of which I don't remember  anything :P, we didn't enter the temple but saw it from outside. Took a cab from here to the Mahalaxmi station,and a train from there to Marine Drive. I instantly loved it. It was lively with all ages of people, youngsters, middle aged  and elderly. I can sit in front of the Ocean for hours and hours and hours...  and so I sat there for hours :) and walked along the 3km boulevard. Of course took a lot of pictures and few of them turned out to be quite interesting. By now my dress was kind of dry and may be it was the continuation of the good luck that it didn't rain much, I was told that, it was raining cats and dogs till that day in Mumbai, So I started thinking of the Converse of Murphy's Law :P ...
Next stop - Gateway of India, lot of crowd, lot of pictures and a glimpse of the mighty Taj Hotel. We were hungry and stopped for lunch in a nearby restaurant. Walked a lot in south Mumbai and then turned towards Fashion street looking out for cheap clothes and accessories. It was 5 pm already and we went to  Leopold's which I recalled having read in the book "Shanatharam" (one of my favourite books till date). Well I loved this place, its more fun if you are in a huge group, the place was filled with Firangis and was highly crowded, we waited for almost half an hour for a table. So far so good, and we headed towards IIT, Bombay. Took a Taxi till Church gate and from there a local till Kanjurmarg and an auto from there to the Mighty IIT campus. It started raining heavily then,  but didn't matter as we were already inside the campus. Freshened up, chatted with my friend and got accommodation in one of the girls hostels. It was dinner time, there is this restaurant called Gulmohar in the campus which serves awesome food for very affordable prices, hence ate to my heart's content. Had a longg walk in the IITB campus, talked on and on and finally around 1am retired for the day. Thought of recording the days events but was too sleepy and went into a deep sleep as soon as I hit the bed. Thus ended a lucky day with lots of nice things to remember for years to come.
That's how I din't write till today about my trip to Mumbai. Damn this bloody sleep :P 

ಡಿ.ವಿ.ಜಿ - ಒಂದು ಸ್ಮರಣೆ

ಬದುಕು ಜಟಕಾ ಬಂಡಿ, ವಿಧಿ ಅದರ ಸಾಹೇಬ
ಕುದುರೆ ನೀನ್, ಅವನು ಪೇಳ್ದಂತೆ ಪಯಣಿಗರು
ಮದುವೆಗೋ ಮಸಣಕೋ, ಬೇಕೆಂದ ಕಡೆಗೋಡು
ಪದ ಕುಸಿಯೆ ನೆಲವಿಹುದು - ಮಂಕುತಿಮ್ಮ
ಮನದಲ್ಲಿ ಏನೋ  ಗೊಂದಲ, ಏನೂ ಬೇಡ, ಎಂಥದು ಬೇಡ, ಏನೋ ಒಂದೇ ಚಿಂತೆ. ನಾನು ನಿಂತಿರುವೆ, ಆದರೆ ಗಡಿಯಾರ ನಿಲ್ಲದು, ಸಮಯ ಓಡುತಿದೆ, ಜೀವನ ಸಾಗುತಿದೆ, ಎಲ್ಲಿಗೆ, ಯಾವ ಕಡೆಗೆ, ಒಂದೂ ತಿಳಿಯದು. ಇಂಥ ಯೋಚನೆಯಲ್ಲಿ ಕುಳಿತಾಗ ನೆನಪಿಗೆ ಬಂದದ್ದು ಮೇಲಿನ ಪದ್ಯ. ಅದೆಂಥಹ ಅರ್ಥ, ಅದೆಂಥಹ ಕಲ್ಪನೆ,  ಆ ಕ್ಷಣಕ್ಕೆ ಎಲ್ಲವನ್ನು ಮರೆತು, ಛೆ ಇನ್ನು ಡಿ.ವಿ.ಜಿ ಅವರ ಕೃತಿಗಳನ್ನ ಜಾಸ್ತಿ ಓದ್ಬೇಕ್ಕಿತ್ತು ಅಂತ ಅನ್ನುಸ್ತ ಇದೆ :P

First time in Flight To First time in Mumbai to First time in Love :) (Part 1)

A long overdue memoir: 
The two most amazing days, when I fell in love for the first time in my life... - With the city of Mumbai :P  I myself was amazed at how happy I could really be, enjoy myself and the company I am with. I really don't remember the last time I was so happy. I forgot everything else for those two days and there was nothing but pure joy. 

I woke up on that saturday morning at 3.15 AM,  took a bath and got ready to leave for Mumbai. I guess it was my good luck, that my new room-mate knew how to ride a two wheeler and I dint have to walk for a kilometere at 3.30 in the morning to the bus stand. Thus the journey started with a positive note :). Reached Jayanagar 4th block bus stand at 3.45 AM and the BIAL bus arrived as per schedule at 4.15 AM and reached airport uneventfully at 5.15 AM. 
I was entering an airport for the first time in my life hence I was obviously excited :P. I had my PAN card and the online receipt ready at the departure gate, stood in the Indigo airlines queue for the Mumbai flight 6E 482, collected my boarding pass, went in for a security check and boarded the Indigo bus. I so much wanted a window seat on my first flight journey but had to be satisfied with an aisle seat. 

while I was frantically searching for the reclining button of the seat, the air hostesses came in for a safety demo and I tell you, to see them perform the routine for the first time was hilarious. Then came the captain's voice, announcing that we were begining our ascent. It was 6.10 AM. I put on my seat belt and waited for the take off. Experiencing take off for the first time felt good, it ran, rattled and then flew, and we were above the city in the clouds and then between the clouds. I was trying hard to get a peek of the ground from my ailse-seat, my neck started to hurt but I could not get a view :P, all I could manage to see were the clouds. My seat was becoming a nuisance as it was not reclining,  finally found the reclining button by asking the person sitting next to me. with that I slept off until I was woken up to put on my seat belt for the descent. And we landed in Mumbai :D. I went out in the Indigo Bus and then to the exit gate. I had a broad grin on my face :D as I saw my friend waiting for me. There it was, Aamchi Mumbai :). 

A day that was ... hmm "awesomest" !!!

11th Dec, 2010, it began with an anticipation of having a fun filled day, out of the routine. I love travelling, add to this the ingredients of good company, the stretch on highway 101 with mountains on one side and the clear blue ocean on the other, great music and the relief of having finished your exams the day before, yes travelling does feel like heaven :).

Strated at 9.15 am, (though we were supposed to start at 8.30, well I got up only at 8.30 :P), with a stop at thousand oaks and reached universal studios in the universal City around 11. Our 'good luck' began with the studio's systems being down, hence our passes not being stamped and viola we had a free tour of the Universal studios :P. We began our adventure of Universal studios with the house of horrors and surprisingly it was fun, followed by the terminator-2 3D show, with a prelude from the cyberdine "Suuuper" :) lady and the technology combined with reality of actors on-stage and on-screen simultaneously, made the show really really "suuuper". I have not watched any of the Terminator movies but after this show I have planned to watch Terminator-2 in its honor:P. This being the Christmas season there was  a giant Christmas tree and a patch of snow. Played in the snow for the first time here :) and loved it. On the way, met 'Donkey' of the "Shrekk movie",  and got ourselves an unlimited refillable bucket of Popcorn :D. Next stop was the Shrek 4D show where even we were involved in the action (us being the 4th Dimension).

Okay, now it was time for our picnic lunch of corn sandwich, and with our first refill of the popcorn we proceeded to the ultimate "simpsons ride" and waited for a like 25 min (which is supposedly a very short waiting time). Truly amazing it was !!! (the holography technology, just amazing). Next on the list was pop-corn refill  and the studio tour. The king-kong's Skull Island creation - just brilliant. (I don't have words to express other than superlatives for everything I saw this day). After the studio tour, time for another refill of popcorn and dinosaurs so Jurassic park it was! Finally a ride to the mummy-land, the best roller-coaster ride till date on my list. we just could not get enough of it even after the second round :)...with a last refill of the pop-corn, and a patel pic in front of the "universal studios logo" we ended  our adventure of Universal studios,  and thanks to Manaaasa :P, Kumar, Karthik, Murali, Priya who made the day even more amazing :)

To complete the Day, Dosa in  an indian restaurant and "the entire day just felt like heaven :)".

:D

What do you do when you come across the perfect person you always imagined in your life?
hmm... every time you try to describe that person, you always end up  just repeating 'AWESOME' :D (like forever) ...

One 'Quarter' ... and more :)

Ever got high from one quarter. Well I have, and may be not just high, I have got a hangover, and still trying to recover from it ... btw, by a Quarter here I mean the first term of my grad school :), its about to end and has been a roller coaster ride till now.

It started as everything else starts - with great "excitement", for taking the most fundu courses, planning to change the course of my life (:D) which seemed like a mess back then (you see, grass is always greener on the other side!!! and so true!!!). Started the first week, crashed all the exciting courses possible, trying to cram in as my subjects.With this initial enthusiasm I finalized and took up 5 courses (:D). Then came the second week, dropped 1 course, and soon came the third week, well you wont get any noble prize for guessing - yes I dropped one more course. Now I was proper grad student left with the minimum requirement of 3 courses :). Entering the 4th week I realized I am not able to cope up with one of my courses (what the hell! And I thought I would change the course of my life :P ), after a lot of contemplation and many sleepless nights, I dropped that course and took up another course, I was half way into the quarter already (Time flies by in a quarter system).

Obviously I was feeling low. Thanks to my friends, especially Darshan and Manasa, because of whom I was able to remain sane during this period. when things go wrong one of my friend pacifies saying, "maga, finally all that matters is you being happy at the end of the day :P", however stupid this might seem, it works. Half way into the quarter I had more realization than ever in my entire life, can be said 'jnanodaya' :P, remember the kind of realization Buddha had below a bodhivriksha :), well if not such a great realization but yes Grad life teaches :P and makes you realize :P !!!

Right now in the final week of the quarter (Already!) and trying to muster all the energy to complete the courses. Projects, finals, papers and games(I donno how games become a routine during exams, I don't play any if there are no exams) and sleep (exams make you want to sleep more, seriously!!)
So I ask myself do I want to quit? People say a quarter always makes you want more. whatever it is, even a roller-coaster ride is a fun ride u c :) ...So, say "All izz Well" and keep going ;) ...

Dedicated to all the grad students ...

Silver lining !

Ever seen a cloud in the sky with a silver lining? Its is a picture that's still imprinted on my neural system which left me awed by its beauty. It was that day, when I understood the analogy of  "Every cloud has a silver lining" to real life.

I am a pessimist by nature. I admire people who are optimistic but I never by myself  have dared or even tried to be an optimist. Whenever I am given a situation my graph is always on the negative y-axis counting the negativities of the outcome. The balance in my hand  for any task has more negative points to it than positives. But that cloud in the sky was oh so beautiful! and made me think, that maybe there is That One Day in everyones life when life seems beautiful, that you are awed by its beauty and you will get to tell "Yes, Every dog has its day :P".

Its a hard life if you are a pessimist ( I know that :P ) and harder to turn into an optimist (I know that too :P ). But maybe every cloud does have a  silver lining and that day may be a pessimist will turn into an optimist or
maybe just that my graph is going positive now :) ...

Remember the First Time? ;)

It was foul smelling ( I thoguht I would puke)... I crinched and she frowned everytime we took a sip of that liquid... Our aim was to get high and speak non-sense as they do in the movies, so we gulped the so called alocohol to reach that goal ... I could not go beyond one mug and she had two glasses ... but, alas we did not get high and could not consume anymore of that liquid... This is how my most recent first-time was ...

Well, there is a first time for everything we do ;) ... And I remember the first time I did all kinds of things ... The first time I got a 100/100 :P ( I know what you are thinking - "show off", but still, I remember it ).. The first time I carried a chit to the test in order to copy from it and was sweating so profusely out of fear that I din't even see a word written on it and that was the last time :P ... The first time I spoke on stage (and cried later for forgetting all the words) .. The first  time I did a night-out tarvelling in a bus to mysore and then back, just for the sake of a night out... The first time I left home for my school in Kittur ...The list goes on ...

Now, coming to the point,  fast forwarding  the list to my most recent first time experience... The first time I tasted alcohol :) ... It was labelled 'Nilaya' and green in colour, got specially from Pondicherry :)  (real reason - the alcohol is cheaper there) for me and my friend from another dear friend ( well he was in pondicherry that time acidentally so). My first thought when I saw the sleek greenish bottle was 'wine is red or white .. why is this green?' (It was that particular green which actually seems like the coulour of puke)...

Me and my friend had a deal  in college - that we will booze one fine day and see what the fuss is all about before we finish college... but as usual we could not ... So, till recently, even after the bottle was in my hand, the wait got longer as my friend had to finish her GATE (The Exam) on Feb 14th :P .. Then came our D Day - when we had our wine in a coffee mug and a  steel cup :P with lots of chips (an advice from the dear friend who got us the wine)...

We still had half of the bottle full, after our two people booze party (btw we had consumed all the chips by then) ...The next day I flushed the remaining liquid in toilet ( I had no other go - See, I stay alone in a single room and if my mom sees that thing when she comes over I guess she will die of heart-attack)...
To be honest guys... It does not taste good... It does not feel good... it is expensive... So I still do not get what the fuss is all about ...

Even though I did not get high, I vaugely remember that I had alcohol - An experience of a lifetime, or was it?

Thinking/Worrying, what is it? A thin line?

Sometimes it feels the world is falling apart for you. You cry like a kid even though you know it's not going to help. You try to think but it seems that your brain has emptied and there is no thought formation. You try to rationalize and all that comes out of it is irrationality you first started out with. It seems you have no more road in front of you. It seems you are standing at the top of a cliff and you say to yourself "This is IT" ...


I had sent the above lines to my friend for review, and she said, "Actually, first your mind will be flooded by a thousand thoughts when you try to make sense out of something that you will not know which one to take and which one to leave and then after this flooding you will reach the state of no thought formation, not before that". I thought for few minutes and  I replied back to her as " yeah you are right, I  have gone through what you said many times !!!"

But it got me thinking, it had happened to me a few times, but in actuality, I am not flooded by a thousand thoughts every time I try to think. I started putting up all my good and bad experiences in life so far, trying to remember the time when I was flooded by thoughts, and not to my surprise, I did not get many, not even close to five. 
I realized that, I don't make sense, even for a minute, when I try to think.  When I try to think, all I do is curse myself for whatever I have done which leads to self loathing and there I stop thinking and that's it. So is this what is called thinking?  If not what is this? And why did I reply back the way I did?  Well that's a different story altogether.

Finally after a long contemplation, came to the conclusion that I cannot think, I mean I cannot think rationally at all. I used to think that, I think too much and that is my biggest problem in life but the actual problem is, it's worrying and not thinking that I do. So all the thoughts I thought I was thinking are actually gibberish which make my thoughts empty... 
So, trying hard to segregate thinking from worrying which will make life much simpler !!! is it not? :)

An Act of goodness :D

It was a sunny day... went out to feel good by having a tender coconut. I got more than I had asked for.


ಒಂದು ಗಂಜಿ ಕೊಡಿ ಅಂತ ಕೇಳ್ದೆ (Asked for a tender coconut with a bit of pulp). He chopped one among the heap. Water was sweet and it felt good in the hot sun. After I drained the water, he cut opened the coconut and I was having the thick 'ಗಂಜಿ' (pulp), when he chopped another coconut and handed it to me. I was like, "ನಾನ್ ಒಂದೇ ಕೇಳಿದ್ದು" (I just asked for one) and I was overwhelmed when he said "ಅದ್ರಲ್ಲಿ ಬರಿ ಗಂಜಿ ಇತ್ತು, ನೀರು ತುಂಬ ಕಮ್ಮಿ, ಇದನ್ನ ತಗೋಳಿ" (It just had pulp no water, take this). I felt good after a very long time. And he took the money for just one coconut.


In this cynical world full of cynics, I felt blessed to be bestowed upon by an act of goodness which even I would have not considered doing. During my college days, I would get up and leave my seat whenever a pregnant woman or women with children or somebody old and feeble would be standing in bus. Nowadays, while travelling by bus I just gaze out of the window and not even look on the other side in order to avoid giving up my seat. In my defense I say to myself "Oh come on, it has been a long day and I am tired too" but whatever the reason it does not feel right and my conscience hurts.


I hope that I shall not turn into a total cynic because there are people out there like the coconut vendor who are still doing GOOD :)

Thoughts of a Fool

I was thinking ... Kept thinking ... And then finally decided to start blogging.

I did not know what I could put down in my blog. You see, as Joey says in "F.R.I.E.N.D.S" - "It seems I don't have enough thoughts to think about", it seems that, I too don't have anything substantial to write about (BTW I am huge fan of FRIENDS :P). But, its my dream to be an 'accomplished' writer someday :P. So, I thought - "let me start by putting down whatever teeny weeny thoughts I have on to the virtual paper atleast" :P and here I am. ( Hoping that, I will continue this seriously as its my habit to delete everything. Till now, I have created and deleted maybe some 5 blogs). Hence, I request you all to read my blog ( meaning, bear my words ) and be my critics so that I can fulfill my dream one day :P ...